Fraternities and sororities have always been a huge part of college identities, and many people fantasize about joining them one day. However, Greek life is harming students in the worst ways, and incoming freshmen should stay away from them when they go to college.

Fraternities and sororities are social organizations on college campuses where members are supposed to be united by common values, interests, and they encourage a sense of community and belonging. However, this promise is only a dream. What these new students fail to realize when they join is what takes place behind the Greek life doors. New members are subjected to hazing, alcohol and substance abuse, and sexual assault.  

Hazing has become one of the most alarming parts of Greek life traditions. To prove their loyalty, new members are forced to endure humiliation, degrading, and sometimes life-threatening activities. While these acts are glamorized as harmless bonding, reality paints a different picture.

According to a report from Hank Nuwer’s Unofficial Hazing Clearinghouse, 105 students died from hazing between 2000-2023 in the U.S., which were a result from excessive drinking, car crashes, suicide from psychological trauma from hazing, fatal falls, and sleep deprivation. 

Not only this, but sororities are an especially dangerous place for women. In a report from CNN, it was shown that men who join fraternities are three times more likely to rape than others, and that women in sororties are 74 percent more likely to experience rape than other college women. 

These acts are not only physically harmful but can permanently alter students’ mental state and cause trauma. Members of fraternities and sororities commonly experience depression, anxiety, and PTSD from experiences that have happened to them in Greek life. 

For Colin Schlank, a former member of Alpha Epsilon Pi at the University of Connecticut, he shared his story about hazing that he had to endure, and the impact it had on him with CNN.

“I was in the backseat of a speeding car with a blindfold over my eyes. Music was blasting as the vehicle swerved from side to side, slamming me against its windows.” Schlank said. “Here are the supposed leaders of the chapter, swearing in my face and treating me like an animal.”

Yes, not every Greek life community at every college leads to damage being done, both physically and mentally, to students, but is it worth the risk?  While Greek life can be a great way for people to find belonging, it poses more harm for students subjected to the harmful environment. High school students currently thinking of joining Greek life when entering college should reconsider. 

I get it—Greek life is tempting. It seems like a fast track to a social life in college, but these so-called traditions aren’t something to be proud of. The idea that you need to endure hazing or humiliation just to belong is completely wrong. True friendships are built on mutual respect, not suffering, and you don’t need a Greek letter to find your place. 

There are so many better ways to connect with people in college, like joining clubs or participating in other school activities, that don’t sacrifice your mental and physical well-being. Before you rush, think twice—any organization that requires you to hurt yourself or others isn’t worth being a part of.